Monday, 11 April 2016

Textless...

I've decided not to message D anymore, every time we text we keep disagreeing or arguing. 

We simply don't understand each other. It's getting to the point where it's a daily occurrence and I think it's getting us both down.

We also get frustrated if one of us doesn't answer the text straight away. But of course life takes over and for whatever reason it's not always possible.

I've suggested we just talk on the phone or in person. So we fully understand each other's words and tone. Also when D does phone he can talk to Moo. We have gone days talking to each other, I'll send photos of the boys and give updates ontheir  day. But we forget to involve Moo. And boy does he love talking on the phone to Papa. 

It's crazy since I've done this how many of my friends are having the same problems with their partners!

We started yesterday and what a difference it's made! Today we spoke a lot, yes we bickered and disagreed, but I felt like I could explain myself better. And I have so much more free time!

Tonight I can relax in the knowledge that D is enjoying his evening and so am I! 

Textless!