But actually he's making me paranoid and anxious.
For much of our relationship I relied on D for his honesty, there were things I didn't know (I'm not kidding myself) and lot of things I chose to ignore. But I felt secure that D told me the things I wanted to, to feel secure.
So now D sort of avoids stating the obvious, rather than say he is going to his girlfriend he sayes he's going to the city in which she lives! After pointing this out to D that its abit weird. We both laughed about it, he doesn't want to rub it in that he's moved on with someone else which I totally get!
But actually I'd find it so much easier to get on with my life knowing that he's telling me the whole picture. Or as much as he can. Saying he's meeting his girlfriend, staying at her house or going away in no way upsets me. I know it's happening all the time, that's what happens when your in a new relationship!
In fact in makes me happy he's happy.
So there it is no bullshitting around! Problem solved!
